Clarity Counseling Seattle

John Buscher, LMHC, MHP, NCC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor

When I engage with clients in therapy I create a safe, open and non-judgmental space where you can explore the past and the present, be seen, heard and valued for who you really are. 

Relationships are surely a challenge, but also a source of growth and renewal. Each of our relationships is an assignment in our life and has something to teach us, to help us evolve and grow as a person. When a relationship is difficult, that person or situation is actually our mentor, helping us to learn an important lesson. When we realize this, we can begin to feel grateful not only for the opportunity to evolve as a person, but also for the individual or situation that guided us to this lesson. I enjoy helping couples and individuals improve their relationships; whether that be to one’s partner, our relationship to ourselves, to our work, and to other aspects of life. 

My work with couples is informed by over 45 years of research conducted by the Gottman Institute and focuses on conflict resolution, emotional connection, and trust building (or rebuilding).  I help couples practice honest and respectful ways of communicating.  Together we can facilitate connection and authentic communication between partners, resolve gridlocked issues, decrease negative conflict, and deepen intimacy.

If there is one constant in life, it's change; a new child, a new job, a new relationship, marriage or a change in one any of those. I enjoy helping people navigate uncertain times, helping them to find a way through, take a new tact, or tap into hidden strengths. Sometimes we can change the situation; sometimes we must change ourselves, tearing down limiting beliefs and narratives to create new beliefs and narratives that honor our true self, our true values, and our goals. And yet other times we must learn to make peace with what we cannot change.   

I bring to my work as a therapist a wide range of life experiences, including my 19 years of working in the IT field for Ameridata and Microsoft. I understand the challenges of working in competitive high-tech workplaces; stress, long hours, looming deadlines, politics, and high pressure that can lead to burn out. Often the first casualty of working in this field is a healthy life outside of work, our relationships, and a sense of joy and engagement in one’s work. I would love to share with you some of the strategies I have used with others to put LIFE back into work-life balance. Let’s turn living to work into working to LIVE.

Other areas of specialty include: working with men to improve their emotional literacy and improve relational acumen; helping individuals with ADD or high-functioning Autism to navigate life, relationships, and work; grief, whether the loss of a life, a love, or a career; and overcoming trauma, such as childhood abuse, near death experiences, military service, first responders, or any life experience that continues to intrude on our life.

I have a Masters Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Antioch University and am a National Board Certified Counselor (NBCC). I work in a variety of therapeutic styles customized to the needs of my client and have received advanced training in Trauma Focused CBT+ for sexual abuse, Exposure Therapy, Grief therapy, and Motivational Interviewing. 

Outside of the therapy office I enjoy live music, hiking, fishing, poetry, and board gaming.

Let’s summit your challenges and find new vistas! I look forward to working with you - feel free to sign up using my schedule.

Depth & Knowledge

Dan brought a depth and knowledge that let him know when to listen and when to offer input or ask questions. He helped me see things about myself I might otherwise would never have. -Steve T.

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