Do I need to be in a relationship to attend sex therapy?

No. You do not need to be in a relationship to benefit from sex therapy. Many people seek therapy around sexuality, intimacy, desire, arousal, shame, identity, confidence, dating patterns, emotional connection, or sexual functioning while single.

Sexuality and intimacy are deeply personal experiences that exist whether or not someone is currently partnered. In fact, individual therapy can sometimes create more space to explore these topics openly without the pressure or complexity of navigating them within an active relationship.

People pursue sex and intimacy therapy for many different reasons, including low desire, erectile difficulties, sexual anxiety, difficulty with emotional vulnerability, compulsive sexual behavior, intimacy fears, dating struggles, performance concerns, body image issues, questions around identity, or challenges forming and maintaining close relationships.

Even when someone is in a relationship, therapy can still be very effective when attended individually. Sometimes a partner is unwilling to participate, unavailable, or simply not needed for the work someone wants to do on themselves.

For many people, sex therapy becomes less about “fixing sex” and more about developing a healthier, more connected relationship with themselves, their emotions, their body, intimacy, and relational patterns overall.

If you’re considering individual counseling, sex and intimacy therapy, or support around relationships and emotional connection, our intake coordinator can help you explore what kind of support may fit best for your needs.