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Find people who can handle your darkest truths, who don't change the subject when you share your pain, or try to make you feel bad for feeling bad.Find people who understand that we all struggle, some of us more than others, and that there's no weakness in admitting it.Find people who want to be real, however that looks and feels, and who want you to be real, too.Find people who get that life is hard, and who get that life is also beautiful, and who aren't afraid to honor both of those realities.Find people who help you feel more at home in your heart, mind and body, ...

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Five Illusions of Manhood (and how to dissolve them)

1. To be a man, you must operate without emotion. Men are generally conditioned from a very early age not to feel. We tend to move from a feeling modality to one of thinking, trying to process everything from the head up, which causes dysfunction.2. To be a man, you must use sexual conquest as a gauge of manhood. We often believe that the more people we sleep with, the more we validate ourselves. Sex becomes merely physical without the emotional and spiritual goals of love, intimacy, and connection.3. To be a man, you must have money and material possessions. This illusion often drives our feelings of inadequacy. We wrongly ...

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Finding and Attracting a Partner

For single men and women ready to get back into the dating game, or who are currently in it but not finding prospects, it might be helpful to remember that the energy we put out is picked up by those around us. There's nothing woo-woo about this - people can sense when we're open to finding love and connecting with those around us.Try to harness this energy you have in you and carry it around in the world. Flirt...smile...be approachable. Because there will be someone nearby who then sees you as open and friendly and emitting that available, sexy energy, which will draw them to you.It's also about getting out ...

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Ten Dating Tips

Everyone can learn something about how to date more often, how to attract the types of people we want to attract, and how to make sure initial chemistry grows into an enduring relationship. Here are some things to consider when out in the dating world:1. Get prepared for dating.If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won't even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in ...

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Ten Things Women Want From Men

The following are 10 things you can begin to do (or do more of) immediately in your relationship to increase closeness, harmony, and connection with your partner:1. Provide empathy, not solutionsWhen she talks to you about a problem she's having, just listen. Resist the urge to offer advice. This can be extremely difficult for some men, as we naturally seek solutions for problems when we hear them, and of course we wish to help solve problems for the one we love. But, paradoxically, by doing nothing but listening with genuine interest, we're very much doing something!2. Be more affectionate.Basic acts of affection like holding hands, touching, hugging and kissing send ...

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