Clarity Counseling Seattle

Rates, Payment, and Insurance Questions


Standard Rates

We understand that therapy is an investment, of your time and money, into yourself or perhaps into your relationship, and the therapists in our practice do everything we can to help you to maximize your investment. Therapy sessions with Dan Fajans, Lisa Stewart, Mary-lynn Ballew, and Bill Aloe are $160 for the standard 50-minute appointment and sessions with Justin Pere are at the $195 rate. We do not charge more for couples or family therapy than we do for individual therapy.


Billing Process

When you sign up to work with one of us, one of the pre-appointment forms in our secure client portal that you complete is the credit/debit/HSA card form, which puts your card on file with us. We typically run cards at the end of each week.


Health Savings Accounts and Flexible Spending Accounts

Health savings accounts (HSA) and flexible spending accounts (FSA) can be used to pay for medical expenses such as therapy and can often significantly decrease the cost of treatment. Please feel free to use either of these as your means of payment if you have them as a medical benefit through your employer.


Tax Deductions

Medical expenses, including out-of-pocket costs for psychotherapy, can sometimes be deducted on your income taxes. We encourage you to speak with an accountant to determine whether you are eligible for these deductions.


Do you accept my health insurance?

This is our most commonly asked question, and it's an important one. The answer varies, and has very important implications for you as the client (whether you choose us or another therapy practice), so we ask that you please take a few minutes to read the rest of this page. We are going to be much more transparent than most therapists probably have been, or will be, with you about the realities of using health insurance for therapy, so that you can make an informed decision about this important choice.

The short answer is this: We want people to be able to utilize their health insurance, and as such, we provide invoices to at least half of the people who work with us, so that they can be reimbursed for whatever their out-of-network coverage will cover. Everyone's policy is different so we can't say exactly what your particular out-of-network coverage is, however what we most often see is 20-60% reimbursement (for example, Premera most often reimburses $94). On the 10th of every month, you will receive an email with the invoice attached, which you just send to your insurer and usually within 3-4 weeks they mail you a reimbursement check.

The longer answer, that is just as important: Insurance companies do not want to have to pay for your therapy. As a result, they have very strict rules around who can use health insurance, and for what. These rules are the exact same for therapists who work "in-network" with insurances (as in, are contracted with insurances) or who work "out-of-network", and what is outlined below applies to all insurance companies, regardless of how wonderful someone's policy may be.

Here is what's important for you to know:


The Requirement of Providing a Mental Health Diagnosis

Insurance companies will only authorize services that they determine "medically necessary". In order for therapy to be considered necessary, your therapist must determine and then provide a mental health diagnosis to your insurance company. It often comes as a surprise to clients when they learn that therapists are required to assign a mental illness to clients in order to utilize insurance benefits, and that this diagnosis becomes part of the client's permanent medical record within the medical system. Common diagnoses are Mood Disorders (Depression, clinical Anxiety, Bi-Polar, Phobias, Social anxiety, OCD, PTSD), Adjustment Disorders, and Personality Disorders.

There are some situations where this mental health diagnosis can be used against you, which is something clients should be aware of.


Accuracy of a Mental Health Diagnosis

The therapist must be able to prove that the diagnosis provided to insurance is 1) accurate for this client and 2) primarily what is being treated in session. Failure of a therapist to provide an appropriate mental health diagnosisto insurance agencies is considered substandard care, unethical, and illegal (insurancefraud).

It should be noted that therapists are extremely careful not to provide a mental health diagnosis that is any more serious or stigmatizing than necessary. However, we are required to choose an appropriate diagnosis, even though we realize a client’s medical records could be summoned at any time. We are required to maintain a client’s chart with all of their information, including this mental health diagnosis, for 7 years. During that time, insurance companies can request the client’s records.



It is important to know that the use of insurance to pay for therapy compromises your confidentiality. There are some situations where your mental health records, including your permanent mental health diagnosis, can be used against you:

  • When applying for life insurance or long-term care insurance, all medical records, including mental health records, are evaluated. Certain diagnoses, such as Depression or other mood disorders, can result in an increased rate and/or the rejection of life insurance application.
  • If you are summoned in a court proceeding such as a divorce, a custody hearing, or as a witness, your medical records can also be subpoenaed and used against you.


Couples/Marital Therapy

We sure don't like to give this news but here it is: health insurance does not cover couples/marriage counseling. It certainly should but it does not. Per the "medical necessity" requirement outlined above, couples are rarely entering into therapy to primarily focus on one person's mental illness. Instead, couples seek counseling for reasons such as communication, connection, conflict, parenting, premarital, sex, betrayal, life changes, etc. And in our opinion all of these should absolutely be covered by health insurance, but they simply are not.

We are sometimes asked if we will bill the couples sessions as individual sessions in order to have them covered, and we hear that some therapists have allowed couples to bill insurance in the past. Billing insurance as an individual session when it is couples therapy isinsurance fraud and puts our license at risk, among other penalties. We are very willing to walk up to the line but we cannot cross it.

Every once in a while a couple is indeed seeking couples therapy for the purpose of focusing on one person's diagnosable (or previously diagnosed) mental illness, in which case we can provide you with an invoice for reimbursement. However the therapist must be able to prove that the problem(s) in the relationship is adirect result of the "identified patient's" mental illness, and that the time spent in couples therapy is only to address that issue. Again, medical necessity is in play here.


So where does this all leave you?

This was a lot of information, we know. Though perhaps overwhelming, it's intended to help you to make an informed decision about your health care and to protect your health information. If you have any other questions please don't hesitate to reach out by phone or email. And if you know what you need to know about cost and insurance, feel free to request an intake call with Makenzie, our intake coordinator.

Frequently Asked Questions

Man smiling | Counseling in Seattle[Justin Pere answering] I personally have a great deal of experience working with female counselors, both as a colleague and as a client, so I very much believe in males working with female counselors. Some of my most influential mentors were (and are!) the women I encountered in a therapeutic setting over the years. However, I discovered long ago the power that also exists in working with a male therapist, and have believed ever since in helping male therapists to be available to those male clients who wish to try working with their same gender expression in therapy.

Benefits of a Male Therapist for Men's Therapy

A therapist need not have experienced every issue a client brings into counseling to be able to work effectively with them (what tortured souls therapists would be if that were the case!), however the value of a therapist being able to relate in a very personal way to the majority of issues men bring into men's therapy is immeasurable, and the same-sex commonality of counselor and client is one I have come to appreciate.

Additionally, men generally have a much harder time opening up about their challenges than women do and often find it easier to discuss certain issues with another male-identified person.

woman smiling | Seattle Therapist Absolutely! The four of us - Justin, Mary-lynn, Dan and John - all have a great deal of experience helping women in counseling and have always enjoyed working with female-identifying clients. Though one of our specialties is working with adults identifying as male (men's issues), our experience, training, and interests also include many of the issues women seek counseling for. At any given time a large percentage of our clients are female. 

Mary-lynn Ballew

And for adults who prefer to work with a female-identified therapist, we're thrilled to have Mary-lynn Ballew onboard. Mary-lynn works with individuals and couples and has been a wonderful addition to our team. She goes in and out of being full (because she's good!) but please check out her profile page to see if she is currently available to help you.

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